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Friday, 30 May 2014

Liebster Award

I was recently nominated for a Liebster Award by the lovely Hannah of Daisies and DMs, and I've been meaning to put this post together to answer the questions set to me for ages. Sorry, it's taken me so long, Hannah, and thank you for nominating me! Better late than never, though, right? 
1. What inspired you to start blogging?


A number of things inspired me to start blogging here at Polka Spots and Freckle Dots. When I first injured my back and became bed ridden in September 2011, I stumbled up on the world of body positivity and plus size style blogs one day when I was randomly browsing Tumblr. I was amazed to see plus size women looking happy, and comfortable in their own skin, while rocking fabulous outfits, and I was hooked. I began to read them every day. These blogs, combined with a wake up call from my injuries, started to change the way I saw my body after 26 years at war with myself, and my confidence gradually began to rise. 


I had loved fashion for years, and realised wearing pretty outfits was helping to raise my spirits through the pain and all the sudden changes and restrictions to my life. I felt more like myself whenever I could dress, and do my eye make up in bold colours, and that's still true today. A few months later, it occurred to me that it could be fun to have somewhere to share my outfits like a couple of my friends did. Just for something to do. I didn't have any big plans or aspirations, I just thought 'hey, a blog could keep me occupied and I could use it to try to work my way towards self-acceptance, too.' I didn't give it much thought, and I pretty much assumed I would get bored of it after a month or so and forget to update it, like I always did with old Livejournal accounts. I never imagined I would still be blogging regularly here more than two years later, or what impact it would have on my life, but starting this blog was one of the best decisions I've ever made.


2. What do you love to blog about the most?


My favourite topics to blog about are outfits, shopping hauls, my travels and adventures, and home tours. Y'know, like dressing table tours, what's in my bag, a collections of particular possessions etc. They're basically all topics I love to write about, and topics I most enjoy reading on other blogs, too.


3. Who is your fashion icon?


Bloggers are my biggest style icons! I read their blogs and follow their social media pages on a daily basis, and the internet has no shortage of incredibly stylish ladies of all shapes and sizes. There are dozens if not hundreds of bloggers whose style I adore. NitaRachel, and Kate are probably my top three style icons, but I have so many style influences that I just can't narrow the rest of my favourites down. I've been trying to for half an hour and it ain't happening, so I refer you to my list of favourite bloggers. They are all style icons in my eyes!



I can't say that I worship the style of celebrities or models like other women do. I don't hunt down the latest images of what they've been wearing, obsess over them, or constantly look to them for fashion inspiration... but I do love the way Dita Von Teese and Zooey Deschanel dress. They both have such a unique style, and wear the prettiest clothes; they always look fabulous, flawless, and so well put together. 


4. Where do you most want to visit before you die?


There are hundreds of places I hope to visit, but I'd particularly love to visit Italy. It looks like such a beautiful country, and the desire to visit it has only increased since I first saw the film Letters to Juliet. I'd love to visit Rome, Venice, Sienna, Milan, and Florence, and soak up all that history and culture. I'm equally in love with Greece, and Australia.


5. What's #1 on your bucket list?

Now that I've finally seen Fall Out Boy live and crossed it off the top of the list, I most want to see the Northern Lights, and to see whales in the wild.  Hopefully one day I'll be lucky enough to cross them both off the list!


6. Favourite magazine?


My favourite magazine used to be Company, but it's gone down hill a lot over the last couple of years and I'm swiftly going off it. I think my current favourite is probably Cosmopolitan, but I also love Marie Claire, Grazia, Glamour, and Look.


7. What is your most loved film?








My favourite film is Titanic and has been since I first saw it in 1997 aged eleven. I've watched it hundreds of times over the years, and I never tire of it. In fact, I'm actually watching it as I type! It's a classic!


Another film I have always loved is Steel Magnolias; which is in my opinion one of the best chick flicks ever made. It's feel-good, it's lovely, it's sad. The characters are fabulous, and the awful eighties fashion, hair, and beauty are alone worth watching the film for! It's one of those films that I can't help quoting in day-to-day life, and I must watch it every Easter Sunday- it's a tradition. If you haven't seen it, grab yourself a copy; you'll love it!




My sisters have called me Ouiser for years after Shirley MacClaine's character! I don't mind, she's awesome!


8. Describe your favourite outfit?


I have several favourite outfits, but I'm currently besotted with my black heart print skater dress from Alice & You. It has a fitted waist, a circular Peter Pan collar, no sleeves, and a fabulous full skirt that I love to swish. It sits on the knee, and has large white hearts all over it. I love wearing it with black opaque tights, studded ankle boots, and a red cardigan, with my black and gold Russian doll bag worn over the shoulder.


9. Describe your worst...


Oh, I've worn some horrendous clothes in my time, especially before I had any interest in fashion. Back in my early teens my friends and I would dress in tracksuit bottoms (remember those Adidas Poppers, with poppers from the hip to the cuffs?), with over-sized men's t-shirts, trainers, and fleeces! *Shudders.* Looking back we looked like characters from Little Britain, but at the time (1998-99) everybody used to dress like that. I won't even go in to the time I wore a backwards cap, and a basketball vest over shorts and a t-shirt a little earlier in the nineties on holiday in France... Thank God I've left my tomboy roots behind!


10. What's your speciality dish?


It's been a while since I've cooked anything more substantial than pate on toast, but I make a mean French Onion Soup, and a great cottage pie. I'm far more skilled in baking and dessert making, though, so my speciality dish is definitely my Blackberry, Raspberry and Apple trifle. I make it every year for Christmas and occasionally on other special days, and it always goes down a storm. It's delicious, if I do say so myself!


11. Where do you see yourself 10 years from now?


Honestly, I have absolutely no idea! With my life on hiatus and no idea when or even if my injuries will heal and my pain will go away, it's difficult to imagine my future. More than anything, I hope that I will have made a full recovery from my injuries and will no longer be in constant pain. I would just like to be happy and living life to the full, with good friends and family in my life, and a man who loves me for who I am. I'm not sure I want kids, but it would be nice to be married and settled down by the time I'm 38, hopefully with my own home and a menagerie of fur babies. I would also love to be back working in animal care, as I'm passionate about that field and loved working around animals. Perhaps I'll even pursue something in fashion... I'm quite certain I'll still be gallivanting off to concerts and taking spontaneous trips, but who knows where the next ten years will take me. At the moment I'm just hoping for the pain to go away and my freedom to return so I can start living those years and make my dreams happen.


If you've made it through to the end, thanks for reading, and thanks again to Hannah for nominating me for the award! Have a great day!


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Wednesday, 19 February 2014

The Liebster Blog Award

In recent weeks I was nominated for a Liebster Blog Award twice by two lovely bloggers; Char of T*rexes and Tiaras, and the lady behind the blog A Touch of Sparkle. I feel awful that I've forgotten her name, and I suspect her blog has been deleted or changed because the link no longer works and I can't find the blog via Google. Regardless, I'm very grateful and humbled by both of the nominations, and it's only right that I take some time to answer the questions both ladies set for me. There are more stages to the award, but as I've been nominated a few times before, I'm just going to reply to the questions.


Char's Questions:

1. What is your favourite thing to do on a rainy day? 

I love to go for walks when it's raining (with or without an umbrella); get soaked, and come home to a hot shower or a hot bath. And you can't beat curling up with a good book and listening to the rain drum against the windows, can you? I guess it's a good thing I like rain since it's barely stopped raining here since November.

2. Skirts or shorts? 


Skirts. I've never really felt fully comfortable in shorts; I feel they draw too much attention to my thighs, and they make me feel self-conscious about my legs and big bum. I feel much more comfortable in skirts that flare over my hips and thighs; they make me feel more feminine.

3. If you found £10 on the pavement, what would you do with it?


If I saw somebody drop it, I would pick it up and make sure they got it back. If nobody was around to claim it, I would probably put it in my pocket and buy something nice for everyone (the family) for dinner, or treat myself to something on my wishlist. If I was feeling especially generous (or guilty!) I'd donate it to an animal charity.

4. Favourite colour? 


I love various shades of green, teal, and purple. Although I also have such a thing for mint right now!

5. Best advice someone has ever given you?


Don't be scared of other people; nobody is worth more or less than anybody else.

6. Where would you most like to go in the world? 


Right now, I'm still dying to return to New York and Perranporth in Cornwall, but if we're talking somewhere new... I think my heart is most set on Italy. I blame the film 'Letters to Juliet'!

7. What super-power would you most like to have and why?


I would like to have the power of not feeling physical pain. It wouldn't make me a hero to anybody, but boy it would be nice not to be in pain every day!

8. Who is the last person you sent a text to?


My best friend, Angela. She was recommending a band to me, and it turned out that I had just downloaded their new album the night before! (You Me At Six).

9. How many times per day do you brush your teeth (randomly this was a question on a survey I recently was paid to take part in!)? 


Usually just twice- when I wake up and before bed, but if I've got an appointment or something, I'll usually brush them again before I go.

10. What is the last blog you followed?


I believe it was the blog Votre Grande Soeur.

11. Do you prefer to read e-books or regular books? Library or shop-bought?


I never thought I would ever say this, but right now I actually prefer to read from my Kindle! As a book lover, I was so against ereaders for years, but I had to eat my words when I realised how great they were a couple of years ago. I seem to read so much more from my Kindle, and I love the ease of downloading a new book no matter the time of the day or night. I do love reading regular books, too, though, and often switch between the two.

I haven't used a library for years. With the Kindle, I get my books from Amazon, and find free and cheap books through Kind of Book. With paper books, I usually buy cheap titles from the supermarket or borrow off my sisters or friends. I do miss spending a small fortune on novels from Borders or Waterstones, though. I could get lost in bookstores for hours.


A Touch of Sparkle's Questions:


1. Three things you want to achieve / do during your life?

I hope to:

-Recover from my disc injuries and regain a normal life.
-See the Northern lights.
-Go whale watching.

2. Why did you start blogging?


I started blogging for a few reasons. I wanted something to keep me occupied while being house bound with disc injuries. (I sure found it!) I was inspired by other plus size blogs and wanted to give it a go myself in the hope of working my way towards self-acceptance; something which I still hadn't gained back then at age 26. (I'm getting there now!) And I wanted to have somewhere to share my outfits with like-minded people, and show the world that fat girls can wear bright, colourful and patterned clothes!

3. The beauty essential you cannot be without?


I couldn't live without waterproof black mascara. 

4. If you could be anyone, who would you be?


Oh, that's a tricky one! I really have no idea. Half an hour or pondering later... I wouldn't mind being Dita Von Teese; she always looks fabulous!

5. Favourite Christmas colour theme?


I'm a fan of classic colour schemes like red, gold, and green... I like to keep the decorations tasteful, but on the Christmas tree, pretty much anything goes. It's full of memories instead of used as a fashionable decoration to impress the neighbours with.

6. Are you a morning or evening person?


I've always been more of a morning person, even if I am currently nocturnal at the moment! I've always preferred the day light and getting up early to make the most of it.

7. Favourite place to buy clothes/shoes?


I'd say my favourite place to shop is probably ASOS. They have one of the best, cutting edge plus size ranges out there, and offer such a wide range of accessories, shoes, bags, and beauty products by a variety of fantastic brands. You can buy your whole outfit in one place, without having to dress head-to-toe in one brand. It also helps that they offer free delivery- that's always a winner in my eyes. For shoes, I also turn to New Look and Simply Be who do some great wide fit shoes.

8. Do you have a Christmas tradition, if so what is it?

We have a few Christmas traditions, one being that we always have a family get-to-gether at my Auntie's house a day or two before Christmas each year. It's very informal, and the house is filled with family on my Dad's side, including some of my Auntie's friends and neighbours. It's basically an occasion to catch up with family, eat, drink, and spread a little Christmas cheer.

9. What is your favourite film?


My favourite film is Titanic, and it has been since I first saw it aged eleven. I never tire of watching it.

10. If you could change one thing about the world what would it be?


I would like to change society's obsession with body size and weight, and the unrealistic 'rules' and expectations that go with it.

11. If you could make one law, what would it be?


I would make it illegal for people to discriminate and body-shame fat people. It seems to be the last acceptable form of discrimination, and it's not okay that people are treated badly and often unfairly because of the size stitched in their clothes.


Thanks for reading.


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Wednesday, 27 June 2012

And the nominations are...

The lovely Rachel of A Dress is For Life has very sweetly nominated me for a blogging award. As she's my style twin, and has such a lovely blog, I'm very honoured to be thought of! Thanks, Rachel!



Here are the rules:

1. Each person must post 11 things about themselves.
2. Answer the questions the tagger has set for you plus create 11 questions for the people you've tagged to answer.
3. Choose 11 people and link them in your post.
4. Go to their page and tell them.
5. Remember, no tag backs



11 Things About Me...

1. I'm head over heels in love with New York.
2. I'm feel most comfortable in dresses.
3. I'm trying to work my way through every Stephen King novel.
4. I'm a big animal lover, and love most critters.
5. But not spiders or daddy long legs. Those I'm scared of.
6. I love the sea and wish I lived a surfer's life.
7. I love baking.
8. I love reading. (My Kindle is my new addiction).
9. One of the nicest, funniest, underrated, handsome men I've ever met is Mikey Graham of Boyzone.
10. I live for concerts with my girlies (and the madness that comes with them).
11. I listen to music every day.


Rachel's Questions, My Answers...

1.Whats your favourite print ? Polka dots, obviously! Although I can't resist bird prints, either.

2. Lipstick or lipgloss? I love lipgloss, but as my hair always gets stuck to my lips when I wear it, my answer is lipstick with a glossy look!
3. Zoo or theme park? Zoo, without a doubt. I love them, and even did work experience in two.
4. Whats your favourite drink? Alcoholic... I can't say no to a cocktail; daiquiris and woo woos always go down well, as does vodka with lemonade or coke. Non-alcoholic... I'm bad; I love Pepsi and Coca Cola.
5. If you could only have one meal for the rest of your life what would it be? Either home made chicken fajitas, or house special chow mein and a little egg fried rice from my local Chinese takeaway as it's amazing.
6. Whats your favourite place to shop? I love Cath Kidston, Accessorize, Dorothy Perkins, and anywhere with make up counters like Selfridges or Inglot.
7.What is your favourite film? Titanic. I've had a bit of an obsession with it since I first saw it aged eleven.
8.Where is your favourite holiday destination? New York! I've only been once but I'm hook, line, and sinker in love with it. I also love staying by the sea in Cornwall, and La Palmyre in France.
9.If you had a super power what would it be and why? I'd have a power to heal anyone in physical pain, because, being in pain is awful.
10.Whats your favourite animal? I love tapirs, giraffes, beluga whales, and have a soft spot for rabbits, guinea pigs and dogs, too. I love most animals, if I'm honest.
11.What do you like to do with your spare time? Read, shop, go to concerts, listen to music, travel, watch movies, go to the cinema, write, and blog, of course! Many are on hiatus while I'm injured.


My 11 nominations are:

It's really hard to short list all the wonderful blogs I enjoy reading regularly, as there are so many of you that inspire me, and who have great style. I'm sorry if I haven't chosen you, because if I follow you, I love your blog.

I know it says not to tag the tagger, but I'm breaking the rule as Rachel has such amazing style, and I love reading her blog, and the lovely comments she posts on my own.



And my 11 questions for you lovely ladies are:

1. Polka dots or bird prints?
2. Dresses or jeans/trousers?
3. Do you have any tattoos, and if yes, how many and what are they of? If no, do you want any?
4. Who's your favourite band or musician?
5. Who would you like to be stuck in a lift (elevator) with?
6. What's at the top of your bucket list?
7. Where is your favourite place on Earth, and why?
8. Bags or shoes? Why?
9. Have you ever met a celebrity, and if yes, who and how?
10. If time, responsibilities, and money weren't an issue, how would you spend your ideal day off?
11. What's your favourite book?


I'm already looking forward to seeing your answers :). I hope you've enjoyed this scheduled post...

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Thursday, 12 April 2012

Versatile Blog Award #1

I've very kindly been awarded the Versatile Blogger Award by the lovely Sian of foreverfabulousinbows. Now I'm very new to this type of blogging, so it's both a surprise, and very flattering. Thank you Sian!





♥ Nominate 15 13 fellow blogger who are relatively new to blogging. 
♥ Let them know that you nominated them. 
♥ Share 7 random facts about yourself. 
♥ Thank the bloggers that have nominated you.
♥ Add the Versatile Blogger Award picture to your blog post.

I'm going to twist the rules a little here. As I'm new to Blogger, I don't really know how long many of you have been blogging. Some blogs I've been reading for over a year, some a few months, and others only a few weeks. So I'm going to nominate the blogs that i most enjoy reading.

I nominate the following blogs, because I genuinely enjoy reading them, and seeing how the lovely ladies style up their outfits. Reading these blogs has been a good distraction for me over the last few months, and have definitely helped raise this shy girl's confidence of her body. So thank you!


Nominations

♥ foreverfabulousinbows- Thank you for nominating me, Sian! I love reading your blog posts.
♥ mystylisms- This is my lovely friend Carol's blog. She has amazing style and gives me lots of fashion advice! Thanks Carol!
♥ pashteit

There are so many blogs that I love reading on here, and through Tumblr, I wish I could add every single one to the list, but we'd be here all night. You're all fantastic!

Now, here's 7 random facts about me... (all photos that follow are my own).

1. I'm covered in freckles from head to toe, and even have them on my lips, feet, and the palm of one hand. I absolutely hated them until I was about seventeen, because they made me stand out. It took me a long, long time to accept them, but now I love them.

2. I have two tattoos. One is a design of five stars in pink and black on my wrist, and the other is a floral design on my foot. The one on my foot was very painful! There are many others on my future wish list. I'm addicted to them, and love seeing other people's ink.




3. I once did work experience at two zoos nine years ago when I was studying animal care at college. Over six weeks I got to look after a variety of tropical birds and birds of prey, a children's farm of weird and wonderful animals including a huge male camel and black swans, seals and sea lions, chimpanzees, elephants, and about forty species of monkeys! I loved it!

4. My favourite thing to do is to see a live show. I feel most like myself when I'm in a crowd of people watching my favourite bands perform live. Some of my favourite bands are Linkin Park, Snow Patrol, Evanescence, Fall Out Boy, Panic! At The Disco, Kings of Leon and The Arcade Fire. I'm not a fan of most modern pop music, and have a very eclectic mix of music on my ipod. I really love movie soundtracks and scores, too.



Linkin Park live in Birmingham, Nov 2010

5. Of course there is an exception. I'm a huge fan of the Irish boyband Boyzone, and have been since I was nine years old (eighteen years and counting). I've met them all a couple of times, and they've always been lovely. I always have the best times with my favourite ladies when I see them live. And, no, I don't care how sad fact number five makes me seem!


Boyzone live in Inverness August 2011
(A photo I took and am proud of)

6. My favourite film of all time is Titanic. I've been fascinated with the disaster since I first saw the film in 1997. In general, I find tragedies and disasters like the ill-fated ship fascinating.

7. I love experimenting with coloured eye shadows. I'm especially in love with green shades. I once had so many different colours to choose from, that my boss joked I had a different colour on every day of the year. My favourite place to shop for make up was B Never Too Busy To Be Beautiful (B for short), until it went in to administration a couple of years ago. I was devastated! Now I love Inglot!

So, there's 7 things about me you never knew, and probably never wanted to!

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